We start our kids out in life by telling them a load of lies from the tooth fairy to Santa; we have them believing every word that comes out of our mouth. Seriously, how mad or hurt were you when you found out that your parents lied about Santa or about anything. I was devastated... it's when being a kid wasn't so much fun anymore and growing up became inevitable. It's when I realized lying made life easier, it made it less complicated, it made it ok to go to sleep at night because my dad would slay the boogie man to protect me. Maybe your parents told you that if you masturbated your penis will fall off or you will go to hell. My all time favorite lie was "sex is nasty"... what a crock of shit! I mean it's as nasty as you make it.. LOL!
When is a lie a lie? is it when the lie has deceived someone into believing all you said and done is the truth? When you have fabricated the story so much that you believe it; now that the line is so thin ,YOU can't remember if it really happened. Is it a lie when you are protecting someones feelings? Like when you meet someone and have no intentions on calling them because you aren't interested; however to not "hurt their feelings" you ask for their number. The truth is you do more damage by taking the number and not calling. Or is it only a lie when you gain from the story that was told? Have you ever told someone "I love you" and didn't mean any of the eight letters you let fall from your lips? I am confused; what are little white lies? and why are they ok? and the BIG BLACK ones aren't.... so there is racism in lying too?
Was it a lie because someone found out the truth?
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